Hi Cindy, I’m so with you in regards to not understanding why learning about this isn’t included in teacher and education training. It’s so normal to just want kids “to behave” sometimes, we all go there. We’ll be looking into that reaction more deeply when we talk about ways to set boundaries and what setting boundaries is really all about. I think many of us get put in that category of just wanting to give kids hugs, and quite frankly that is often what I actually do want to do 🙂